BPD - Non Borderline - Information and Insight

A.J. Mahari is a professional writer, author, and life coach. She has lived on both sides of Borderline Personality Disorder She is a woman who has recovered from BPD. Mahari knows BPD inside out from both sides and shares her insights in the hopes of helping others.

Friday, July 11, 2008

The Black Hole of Borderline Personality - Shame of Abandonment

The black hole of BPD affects both borderlines and non-borderlines. It is painful and real on both sides of Borderline Personality Disorder....

The Borderline Dance of I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

"I-hate-you, don't-leave-me" is a borderline mantra. It is a theme driven by the lack of a known authentic self and primitive ...

The Language of BPD - Can loved ones and family members learn to speak it?

Would a Non Borderline communicating his/her boundaries to a borderline (even he or she could) by attempting to speak the emotional language...

Borderline Loss of Self Equals Rage

Those diagnosed with Borderline Personality (BPD) have experienced the loss of the authentic self. This loss of self creates a void, a vacuu...

Is Borderline Behaviour Due To The "Illness" of Borderline Personality - The Brain Disorder?

Is borderline behaviour due to the "illness" of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Is it caused by the brain? Whose responsibi...

BPD Family

Some people have BPD in the family whereas I came from a family of BPD. Children do learn what they live. The effects of Borderline Personal...

Lack of Object Constancy In BPD

Lack of object constancy in Borderline Personality Disorder is at the heart of borderline abandonment trauma and repeated relationship ruptu...

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A.J. Mahari: Ontario, Canada; A.J. Mahari is an author, life coach and strategist. Among other things, she has the voice of a consumer expert whose knowledge of Borderline Personality Disorder comes from first-hand life experience on both sides of BPD.

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